The Real Ages and Secret Partners of Criminal Minds Stars 2025 — Finally Revealed
Criminal Minds has thrilled audiences for nearly two decades, but what happens when the cameras stop rolling? Beyond solving cases on screen, the cast has their own fascinating real-life stories, from surprising ages to secret relationships. Here’s a breakdown that fans can’t stop talking about.
Shemar Moore: Still “Chocolate Thunder” at 55
Born in April 1970, Shemar Moore is now 55.
Known for his smooth charisma as Derek Morgan, he’s also made headlines for his personal life. Shemar welcomed a daughter with Jesiree Dizon in 2023, but the pair have since split. Fans still can’t resist his famous “Baby Girl” charm.
A. J. Cook: JJ’s Double Role as Mom
AJ Cook, born in 1978, is 47 today. Married to Nathan Andersen since 2001, she’s the definition of steady.
Fun fact: her real sons have even played JJ’s children on screen, blurring the line between fiction and family.
Joe Mantegna: The Veteran of Love and the BAU
At 77, Joe Mantegna (born in 1947) proves age is just a number. Married to Arlene Vrhel since 1975, their love story is one of Hollywood’s rare long-lasting ones. Their daughter Gia even guest-starred on Criminal Minds—keeping it all in the family.
Paget Brewster: A Secret Wedding with a Star Officiant
Paget Brewster, 55, shocked fans not with her age but her wedding details. She married musician Steve Damstra, and the officiant was none other than co-star Matthew Gray Gubler. It’s the kind of behind-the-scenes twist fans adore.
Kirsten Vangsness: Garcia’s Mystery Love Life
Kirsten Vangsness, the quirky Garcia, is now 53. She was once engaged to actor Keith Hanson, but today she keeps her love life private. Fans speculate, but Kirsten seems happy letting her off-screen story remain a mystery.
Adam Rodriguez: Family Man at Heart
At 50, Adam Rodriguez balances Hollywood with family. Married to Grace Gail since 2016, he has three children.
While Luke Alvez hunts bad guys on screen, Adam’s happiest role is father at home.
Aisha Tyler: Single and Thriving
Aisha Tyler, born in 1970, is 54. After her divorce from Jeffrey Tietjens in 2017, she’s embraced single life. A multi-talent across TV, comedy, and directing, Aisha proves independence is powerful.
Matthew Gray Gubler: The Eternal Mystery
The fan-favorite “Dr. Reid” is 45 this year. Though he’s linked to names like Kat Dennings in the past, Gubler has never gone public with a long-term partner. Fans love him for his eccentricity—and for keeping everyone guessing.
✨ Whether it’s Shemar’s heartbreak, Paget’s secret wedding, or AJ Cook’s family blending into the show, the cast of Criminal Minds has lives just as fascinating as their on-screen cases. Which revelation surprised you most?
